The second question ‘Mera Kaun’ leads us a step further on this path of true knowledge of self and our existence. Once we come to realise that, in truth, I am not what I seem to be or what I identify myself with, I should also try to understand the truth of my surroundings and the persons who are often found around me.
When we say ‘mine’, there comes a sense of right or authority and an idea of possession. But with social human relations ‘Mera Kaun’ (who is mine) may not show that right of possession or authority and it would stand for good and useful expectation. In other words, such a thing or relation is expected to prove prove useful and helpful in times of my need. If we think that relations, or at least, some basic relation are one’s own, one needs to think again. No doubt some relations are fundamental like one’s parents, father and mother, while other relations of brother, sister, husband, wife, children, uncle, aunts etc. may be treated as secondary. I call them secondary because one may or may not have some or many of these relations. These days, when the norm is of small families and people try to limit their family to one or two children, one may or may not have a brother or a sister. During the course of one’s life one may not marry at all and, as such, the relations of husband, wife, children etc. become redundant for him/her.
The complexities of life are such that even I, despite my sincere efforts, may not be of much use to my relatives in times of their need.
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