love makes no claims

Love makes no claims

"The doctor was surprised. Is this man a fool to make all this chaos for the one who does not even recognise him?" - Dadi Janki

People often make strong assertions of their love for one or the other person. They can recount what they have done and what they have tolerated in their love relation. They have perhaps suffered social criticism and faced opposition. They remember all these things to their minute details. Many are proud of their efforts and emotion while some may also be repentant at having wasted the precious years of their life. Sometime back I had read the following incident somewhere, which describes the depth of true love.

Early in the morning, a man with wounded hand came running to a doctor. The cloth wrapped on the hand was blood-wet which showed that the wound was still bleeding. Finding the doctor busy with some other patient, the man asked the doctor to quickly attend to him as he was in a hurry. Finding the doctor a little hesitant, the man prepared to go. The doctor yielded. After dressing his wound the doctor asked him to come the next day for dressing.

“I don’t know. She seems to have lost her memory and can’t recognise me.”

The doctor was surprised. Is this man a fool to make all this chaos for the one, who does not even recognise him? The doctor said, “Then why do make all this fuss when she does not even know you.”

“Doctor, she does not know who I am, but I do know that she is my wife.”

Next day the man again was in a hurry and almost forced the doctor to leave the patient in hand and attend to him. On the third day when the man made similar request, the doctor was irritated and asked him, “What is the hurry? Why can’t you wait?” The man replied, “Doctor, my wife is in the hospital and I am carrying her breakfast.” The doctor became a bit soft and dressing his wound said, “She must be a very lucky wife as you are so caring. Is she seriously ill?”

“Yes, doctor, quite serious.”

“She must be very grateful that you take her breakfast daily so punctually and serve her there in the hospital.”

“I don’t know. She seems to have lost her memory and can’t recognise me.”

The doctor was surprised. Is this man a fool to make all this chaos for the one, who does not even recognise him? The doctor said, “Then why do make all this fuss when she does not even know you.”

“Doctor, she does not know who I am, but I do know that she is my wife.” Saying this, the man rushed to the hospital.

Dadi Janki

The Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University (BKWSU) is an international non-governmental organisation, which intends to help individuals re-discover and strengthen their inherent worth by encouraging and facilitating a process of spiritual awakening.

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