Remember one thing, there are a few things that can be done only in a very indirect way, never directly. If you try to do them directly, you will fail.
For example, if you have seen something, tasted something, then it is very natural that you would like to share it with your friends, your family. But don’t be too aggressive about it because that will become a barrier. In fact, don’t try to convince anybody about it. You simply go there and let them see what has happened to you.
If you become too concerned about them, you become nervous. If you are nervous, you will become tense. If you become tense, you may say that meditation gives silence, but your whole presence will show something else: that you are tense, nervous, anxious. It will be a self-defeating thing. Don’t be worried about them.
If you can carry whatsoever you have felt, that’s enough. Just enjoy in their presence. Let them see that you are smiling more, that you can laugh deeply. Let them see that you have become more tranquil and collected and calm. Let them see that you don’t react so easily. Let them feel your being – and that will be their change. They will start asking what has happened. Then too, don’t become too aggressive because whenever you are aggressive the other becomes too defensive; that’s natural.
Osho is known for his revolutionary contribution to the science of inner transformation, with an approach to meditation that acknowledges the accelerated pace of contemporary life.
Comments