Embrace maturity

Maturity is living without hope

When you drop hope there is no possibility of becoming hopeless! Don't project hope onto to our future and live in the moment.

Hope is childish. You become mature when you don’t project hope into the future. In fact, you are mature when you don’t have any future; you just live in the moment—because that is the only reality there is. In the past, religion used to talk about the hereafter. Those were the childish, immature days of religion. Now religion talks about here-now; religion has come of age.

In the Vedas, in the Koran, in the Bible, hereafter is the basic goal. But now man is no longer that childish. That sort of God and that sort of religion is dead. It was a religion of hope; it was a religion of future.

Now another sort of religion is asserting itself all over the world, and this religion is about here-now, the present. There is nowhere else to go and there is no other space and no other time to live, only this space and this time, here and now. Life has to become very intense in this moment. A man who lives in hope dissipates life. He spreads life; it becomes too thin. And when it becomes too thin, it is never happy. Happiness means intensity, tremendous depth.

When I say drop all hope, I mean be so intense in the moment that there is no need for the future. Then there is a turning, a transformation. The very quality of time changes for you it becomes eternal.

What can you hope? You cannot hope for the new. You can only hope for the old, maybe with a little modification here and there, a little more decorated. Hope means simply projecting the past into the future: you loved a man yesterday, you want to love the man tomorrow also. And you know that yesterday was not a fulfilment, hence the hope. You missed something yesterday. Now that missed gap is torturing you; it is creating agony.

But between yesterday and tomorrow is today. If you really want to love, then why not be here-now, today? Otherwise, when today will have become yesterday you will again start projecting it. Incomplete experiences are projected. Uncompleted desires are projected. If you really love totally this moment, you will never think about this moment again. It is finished, it is complete. It disappears, it leaves no trace on you.

This is what Krishnamurti calls ‘total act’. Total act creates no Karma: it creates no chain, it creates no bondage. If it is total, you never remember it again.

We remember only something which has remained incomplete. Mind tends to complete things. And you have so many incomplete experiences; they go on being projected into the future.

Drop hope!

But whenever I ask somebody to drop hope, he thinks that I am telling him to become hopeless. No, I’m not doing that. When you drop hope there is no possibility of becoming hopeless, because hopelessness exists only because of hope. Hopelessness is frustrated hope. The moment you drop hope, hopelessness is also dropped. You are simply without hope and without hopelessness. And that is the most beautiful moment that can happen to a man, because in that very moment one enters into the shrine of godliness.

Excerpted from The Beloved by Osho

Osho is known for his revolutionary contribution to the science of inner transformation, with an approach to meditation that acknowledges the accelerated pace of contemporary life.

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