Little Things on Netflix has been trending for more than a reason, relatability being a big one. The story revolves around the lives of Kavya Kulkarni and Dhruv Vats, a couple navigating the ups and downs of their relationship while building a life for themselves. They make up just as easily as they argue and fight. The series’ fan following declares it’s the little things that hold this small screen relationship together.
Not just on the television, but in real life too, ordinary acts can trump the grandest of them. They may seem insignificant but they keep relationships from falling apart. Small gestures such as paying compliments, greeting each other every morning, wishing good night, asking their partner about their day, doing something fun together are things that can truly solidify a relationship.
You may ask how that works. On a day-to-day basis, you make your partner feel valued, which adds to their wellbeing quotient. A study shows that “people who experience brief experiences of love and connection in everyday life have significantly higher levels of psychological well-being, which includes feelings of purpose and optimism.”
Moreover, the little things you do for your partner can have a big impact on your own wellbeing and as a result, on your relationship in the long run. These actions let your partner know that they are seen, heard, and understood. Here are a few small things you can do for your partner that can make your relationship healthier and happier.
Compliments
When you have been with your partner for a long time, it’s easy to take them for granted. It’s also easy to forgo appreciation and compliments because if you’ve made it this far, they should know how much they are valued. However, if you want your relationship to last, it’s essential to compliment each other from time to time. By telling your significant other how special they are, you make them feel good and acknowledge their presence in your life. Even if your partner knows deep down that they’re loved, hearing those words from you reaffirms that feeling.
Accomplishments
Organising a celebratory get-together when your partner is promoted at work or gifting them something meaningful to cheer for their achievement can truly strengthen your relationship. Such gestures show that you take your partner’s success as seriously as your own. According to a study published in Psychology Today: “People who show the most enthusiasm for their partner’s achievements have the least conflict in their relationship.” This little thing can go a long way in keeping your relationship healthy.
Little things like active listening, showing appreciation, and small gestures of love can have a profound impact on a relationship.
Active listening involves giving your full attention to your partner when they’re speaking. It shows that you value their thoughts and feelings, leading to better understanding and deeper emotional connection.
Expressing gratitude for your partner’s efforts and qualities creates a positive atmosphere, encourages reciprocity, and strengthens the emotional bond.
Small, thoughtful actions—such as leaving a note, preparing a surprise meal, or offering a hug—demonstrate your affection and consideration.
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