Cancer evokes fear in all humans. It is a disease that has, over the years, plagued millions of people and affected their families as well. It is a diagnosis that turns the lives of families upside down. For the caregiver, it means summoning large reserves of bravery and strength to deal with. We often extend our empathy to those bearing the burden of a cancer diagnosis, acknowledging their struggle and applauding their fortitude. But amidst this compassion, we must also cast light on the trauma that envelops the families and loved ones who stand by their side. The journey of cancer is not solitary; it ripples through the lives of all who hold the patient dear. The trauma endured by family members, friends and caregivers is often underestimated as they watch their loved ones navigate the unpredictable path of this illness. The emotional toll can be staggering and their weight deserves acknowledgement and support.
In observance of National Cancer Awareness Day, join us as we shed light on four ways to assist these unsung heroes in the battle against cancer.
The emotional journey of cancer is complex and challenging. Loved ones often carry feelings of fear, frustration and helplessness. Being a compassionate and empathetic listener can make an immense difference in their lives. Encourage them to express their emotions, fears and concerns without judgement. Offer a shoulder to lean on, become a safe space for them to vent in times of distress. Your willingness to listen and understand can provide them with that much needed comfort during the mammoth crisis they are dealing with at home.
Be sensitive to their need for space and privacy while offering your support. Let them know you’re available when they want to talk and respect their boundaries.
Encourage them to seek professional counselling or join a support group. Offer to accompany them to appointments or help them find resources for emotional support.
Ask your loved one what specific help they need and respect their preferences. Focus on practical tasks like cooking, cleaning or running errands and let them guide you.
Reliable sources include cancer organisations, reputable medical websites and medical professionals. These resources can help you better understand the diagnosis and treatment options.
Show empathy and respect by offering support while allowing your loved one to make their own decisions. Tailor your support to their needs and preferences.
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