How To Keep Calm & Stay Positive In the Adversity

Keeping calm in the face of adversity

By assessing the situation and leveraging available resources, we can overcome obstacles and achieve success.

When Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821) escaped from the Island of Elba after his first term of imprisonment, he was accompanied only by a small group of loyal soldiers. Once dethroned, he now again aspired to the throne of France. But in the very first encounter, he found himself face to face with 20,000 French soldiers.

Napoleon, although considered one of the most courageous leaders the world has known, avoided a direct confrontation with his opponents. He did not make the mistake of foolishly ignoring his own military weakness. At the crucial moment, when he and his little band of men stood face to face with this enormous army, he stepped forward, completely unarmed, and stood calmly before his enemies. Then with great composure he unbuttoned his coat and bared his chest. In a voice charged with emotion, he addressed the great throng of soldiers—many of whom had served under him in the past: “‘Which one of you is willing to fire at the naked chest of his father?’ The battlefield rang with shouts of ‘No one!’” (The Moral Vision, p. 159) Almost all the soldiers belonging to the enemy camp rushed to the side of Napolean, who emerged victorious and once more ascended the throne of France. If, in the destitute state he was in at that time, he had attempted to do battle with the French army, he would surely have been slaughtered on that very battlefield.

Whatever a man’s resources, if he must deal effectively with a situation, he must be able to make a proper assessment of it. And he will not be able to do this if he panics in the face of danger. It is only if he does not lose his nerve and keeps his mind open to what is practical that he will be able to overcome the obstacles in his path. Inevitably, his success depends upon his being able to make a well-considered choice of whatever material and mental resources are available to him and then putting them to proper use. History abounds in instances of the weak overcoming the strong, simply by strategic deployment of resources. The reason for such success is not far to seek: often the enemy is not as strong as he appears to be. Everyone has his Achilles’ heel. It is just a question of finding it and then ruthlessly exploiting it. Just as Napolean exploited the French troops’ old and sentimental loyalty to himself—that being his only mainstay—so can ordinary individuals take advantage of their enemies’ vulnerability to gain their point without the kind of confrontation which could be disastrous to both sides.

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