My God My Best Friend – B.K. Subramanian Avadi

The friend indeed

The communication with God is something more than just speaking, it is the ability to tune the self to his powers.

There is a saying: A friend in need is a friend indeed. One who helps someone at a time of need, is certainly a precious asset. However, there are occasions when a friend also can turn into an enemy or may try to sink the friend’s ship during the course of journey in life.

In Shakespeare’s play Julius Caesar, there is a character named Brutus. Julius Caesar is the hero and Brutus is his friend. In a particular scene of the play, Julius Caesar is betrayed by his friend Brutus who plots his assassination and together with his enemies, stabs him with knives.

Julius Caesar is greatly shocked to see his friend Brutus also amidst his enemies and painfully utters, “Hey Brutus you too…. They are all my enemies so they have plotted to kill me. But you! My best friend, you too…”. After a few minutes of his utterance Julius Caesar falls down and dies.’

Friendship is one of the greatest needs and one of the most exalted blessings of the human heart, but at times we find that people who betray us, deceive us or fail to meet our expectations. The love of our fellow human beings, no matter how noble and lovable, is always weak and imperfect, but what if we find love, which is completely pure and unconditional, which holds the highest good, containing in itself every good, every beauty, everything amiable – all the sweetness that could give us all that we desire! And who can it be.

Rajyoga meditation taught by the Brahmakumaris is about experiencing all relationships with God father Shiva, even that of a friend. God is the most trustworthy of friends; there is really no comparison. Too often we see God only as father and mother. But he is also my true friend, and this relationship brings lightness and easiness to all my relationships with God. It is said that a friend of God is a friend of all. Friendship with God teaches and inspires me to be a good friend to others. With God as a friend, you can be open and know that in that openness, there is a loyalty and an understanding of everything that is within the heart.

Friendship means availability. A friend is available at all times and never says, “I do not have time”, “wait”, “later”, “don’t bother me now”; when there is a great need, a friend rushes there to help. We cannot expect the worldly friend to be present on the spot always, particularly during emergencies. But God is always available, every second of our life. With God, you are never alone.

Friends always have a deep closeness to each other even if they are physically apart. This companionship conquers distance, time or any other type of separation. Their mutual empathy is the basis of the communication. The communication with God is something more than just speaking, it is the ability to tune the self to his powers. With God we can share all our fears, insecurities, secrets or misdeeds and he accepts us as we are. God’s vision for us is always pure and elevated.

There is a Tamil film song, the line of which is reproduced below in English.

‘A ship that will never sink is the only ship of friendship’. God is our boatman, who is taking us across – from the ocean of poison (vicious world Kaliyug) to the ocean of nectar (Satyuga). It has been said that the boat of truth will shake, but will never capsize and sink. All we need is a pure and honest heart, and love him unwaveringly. There is no greater love than this that we can give to our beloved, precious friend.

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