Some people have extraordinary inherent qualities, due to which they are able to become masters of all situations. Such individuals can, when they come to a gathering, win the hearts and minds of people simply by appearing there. There is a saying about such persons: They came, they saw, they conquered.
This kind of ability to conquer is not the monopoly of extraordinary people. Any ordinary person also can win the hearts and minds of people, provided he knows the law of nature and can avail of it by the power known as the power of spirituality. According to the creation plan of God, all human beings, both men and women, have two entirely different qualities – the ego and the conscience. The ego symbolizes arrogance, while the conscience symbolizes modesty.
If there is a controversy between two men, Mr A and Mr B, and Mr A enters into a heated exchange and refuses to give Mr B due respect and honour. This behaviour is bound to provoke Mr B, who will try to teach Mr A a lesson. It is this situation that one psychologist has analyzed thus: “When one’s ego is touched, it turns into superego, and the result is a breakdown.”
In this case Mr A gave a challenge to Mr B and Mr B turned into Mr Ego or Mr Arrogant. This behaviour will certainly go against Mr A. Mr A will fail to gain the upper hand over Mr B.
Then let us take the opposite case. Suppose there is a controversy between Mr A and Mr B, in the course of which Mr A avoids provoking Mr B, having followed the principle of modesty – a unilateral compromise. This kind of behaviour on the part of Mr A is bound to touch the conscience of Mr B. It will cause him to engage in introspection, and he will reconsider the whole matter. He will ultimately repent for behaving in such a way as was likely to cause friction. Where previously he had considered Mr A as Mr Rival, he will now discover Mr A to be his friend.
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