As a child, I didn’t have much in the way of personal freedom. My parents had imposed strict rules about study and playtime, and I wasn’t allowed to go out a lot. The atmosphere at home was quite restrictive and I hated it; I couldn’t wait to move out and go off to college. Little did I know that all the freedom I desperately wanted, came with a lot of responsibilities.
Even though college life wasn’t devoid of rules, I enjoyed freedom of many kinds. I could stay up all night, eat junk food and watch movies whenever I wanted. There was no fixed study time; there weren’t too many assignments, to begin with. And I was free to fill my wardrobe with clothes of my choice. While it was all refreshing at first, the novelty wore off soon. I found myself dozing off in classes because I hadn’t gotten enough sleep. I flunked a few tests because I hadn’t bothered preparing. And all the fancy clothes I bought drained my pocket money, leaving me broke.
My parents had indeed warned me that freedom came with responsibility. But I didn’t understand what that meant until I faced the consequences of my irresponsible behaviour. And this lesson is one I continue to remind myself to this day, for it is easy to take freedom for granted. Each of us might enjoy freedom of many kinds—freedom of belief, choice and expression; freedom to live life as we want. But when exercised carelessly, it might hurt us and those around us. For example, everybody is free to go out for a couple of drinks after a long day at work. But when someone decides to drive home after drinking, they stand to hurt themselves and those on the road.
Maybe, in a sense, we are all wired to take our freedom for granted. When we have something in abundance, we assume it is something we would always have.
While we all have the freedom of choice, we are not exempt from the consequences of our choices. Freedom comes with the responsibility to consider the impact of our actions and make choices that align with our wellbeing and the wellbeing of others.
Without a sense of responsibility, this freedom can lead to negative consequences such as poor academic performance, financial struggles, and compromised well-being.
When we have freedom in abundance, we may assume it is something that will always be available to us and may even be tempted to misuse it occasionally.
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